Regardless of how much you care for someone, it seems to me that they can never care enough. What some of us (or most of us) want is to be acknowledged, missed by the people who love us. When I've had a bad day, a text message, phone call, facebook message, card, something just to let me know that you're thinking of me is all that I'm asking from you - but that's me. "Treat others the way you would want to be treated". Often, people become comfortable in relationships and don't get me wrong, that's a good thing to an extent, but not to the point where you stop doing the little things you did in the beginning of the relationship. Those little things, while you may have been trying to impress or be on your best behavior, that's what made the grueling act of dating and getting to know someone worth while. When did I ever ask you to stop being nice? Do you remember, cause I don't.
Everything adds up. Them not coming by, playing video games when they ask you to come over. Perosnally, the only thing I want is for you to be nice and respect me. Like A.A. Milne says "to be sure of you". Are you the person I fell in love with or was that just a mask. Will things really change? Or will it happen for a week or two and then it's forgotten.
Just put yourself in the other person's shoes (I know I keep using sayings and quotes in this entry, but they fit). Maybe then you'll see how they're feeling and begin to understand their reasons. Then again, maybe you won't.
No comments:
Post a Comment